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How to Date Successfully

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Need to know advice before you start dating this summer. The biggest challenge my single male clients are facing is how to date successfully in today’s dating scene. In fact, many of my clients aren’t even clear on what dating truly is. Some are unaware they can date multiple women at once, and some are unaware of what the dating process should be like. Some of my clients rely too heavily on dating apps and others are afraid to use them all together. They share frustrations with me about how to progress to something more serious or how to know when a woman isn’t for them. So I’m going to break it down for you and help you understand important elements to make your dating process feel smoother, and healthier and give you a likelier chance of meeting your dream woman. Here Is The Need To Knows Before You Start: Know what you want in a partner and in your relationship. This is something I repeat every time I speak to someone wanting to date. Without knowing the type of partner you would ...

The Psychology of Love

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  For those of us out there dating and trying to find love not many of us have asked ourselves what love means. How has the idea of love been shaped by our childhood experiences as well as cultural norms? In today’s episode, I dive into the psychology of love along with a few different theories of love itself. If you enjoyed this episode please share it and consider leaving a rating and review. Click here to listen to the podcast. p.s. don’t forget to book your free dating strategy call with me, using the link below. With love, Kimberly Book Your Free Dating Strategy Call ⁠⁠ here⁠⁠ (Valued at $500, limited spots available). Join The Club, Get Personalized Support & Connect with Quality Women ⁠⁠ here .⁠⁠

Dating Someone New? Check Out These 10 Relationship Green Flags

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  In relationships, it’s important to know what behaviours we absolutely won’t tolerate, and that’s why many of us get clear on our red flags. But hey, if you’ve found yourself dating or in a new relationship and you’re wondering if this could be “the one,” check out these 10 green flags that you’ve found somebody special. 10 Relationship Green Flags: They support your personal growth They listen to you with patience and curiosity They respect your boundaries and have their own You are being included in their personal life, including meeting friends and family You feel safe to express yourself openly and without judgment Even if you have small disagreements, they don’t threaten your relationship They view you as an equal and include you in decision making They go out of their way to make you smile or laugh You feel comfortable being your true self around them You don’t get the feeling you’re competing for their time How many can you check off the list? If you’re not seeing these si...

Maintaining Your Identity In A Relationship

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  Are you having an identity crisis? Many of us get into relationships and lose ourselves in the process. We merge to mesh with our partners to the extent that we start giving up our own goals, passion, friendships and hobbies. If this sounds like you, take a listen to understand ways to maintain your identity in a relationship and its importance for your mental health. Click here to listen to the podcast. Want exclusive dating advice (that you can’t find on my social media?) Sign Up Here . If you’re interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here . Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers. Join here . Ready to start working with Kimberly? Book a free consultation here .

Do You Put Women On A Pedestal?

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  If you’ve recently gotten divorced or out of a significant relationship, you might be dating again and wondering why things aren’t working out, despite being a nice guy. Many men fall into the trap of putting women on a pedestal. We all have idealized versions of people and often we fall in love with someone’s beauty and positive qualities. Be careful you don’t over-idealize and miss red flags that will come back to bite you. Click here to listen to the podcast. Ready to find your dream relationship? Book a free consultation here . Limited spots are available.

How to Date Successfully (A Guide for Single Men of All Ages)

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  Need to know advice before you start dating this summer. The biggest challenge my single male clients are facing is how to date successfully in today’s dating scene. In fact, many of my clients aren’t even clear on what dating truly is. Some are unaware they can date multiple women at once, and some are unaware of what the dating process should be like. Some of my clients rely too heavily on dating apps and others are afraid to use them all together. They share frustrations with me about how to progress to something more serious or how to know when a woman isn’t for them. So I’m going to break it down for you and help you understand important elements to make your dating process feel smoother, and healthier and give you a likelier chance of meeting your dream woman. Here Is The Need To Knows Before You Start: Know what you want in a partner and in your relationship. This is something I repeat every time I speak to someone wanting to date. Without knowing the type of partner you ...

Where To Make New Connections in 2022

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  After a two-year pandemic, many of us have forgotten how to get out into the community and make new connections. We’ve become comfortable inside our homes and maybe we’ve even lost some social skills. We work from home, we order our groceries and we get what we need to be delivered through Amazon. Our friends exist on Instagram and Tik Tok. But that’s not enough, and if you want to live a long and healthy life, it’s important to have good people around you and a sense of belonging. So where can you go to meet new people, make new connections and possibly find a romantic partner? I’ll share with you a handful of ideas that will get you off the couch and out into the world. Click here to listen to the podcast. If you’re interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here . Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here . Ready to start working with ...

Fatherhood, Divorce & Dealing with ADHD

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  Join Ben and me talk about dealing with an ADHD diagnosis, life after divorce and why we behave the way we do. Click here to listen to the podcast. Ben Redmond is a coach, therapist, and men’s work leader who used to be a public school teacher. While his coaching practice focuses on guiding parents of children with difficult behaviours, much of his experience is working with kids and adults diagnosed with ADHD, ODD, born polydrug addicted, PTSD, anxiety, and depression. Ben has ADHD, is divorced, and peacefully co-parents his two girls with his ex-wife. Ben’s passion is in guiding people through healing, loss, and transition into connection with themselves, their families, community, and the life they desire. If you’re interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please book a complimentary conversation here . You can also find out more information on her website here . Need help setting up your online dating profile? Join my FREE class “Master Your Online Da...

Dating Someone With Depression

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  Many of us are experiencing more stress, overwhelm and anxiety. Whether this has been brought on by the pandemic, a tragedy or something else, we are seeing staggering rates of depression in individuals. It’s not unlikely you or your partner has dealt with it at some point. So how do you manage a relationship if your partner is depressed? In today’s solo episode, I wanted to share some suggestions and thoughts on how to manage a relationship if your partner is depressed. Click here to listen to the podcast. If you’re interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here . Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here .

How To Avoid Online Dating Burnout

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  If you’re single, there is a good chance you’re dating online. And if you are, you’re probably feeling frustrated, annoyed or maybe even cynical about the whole process. Chances are you could be burnt out. That’s why in today’s episode, I want to share with you a few ways you can overcome this burnout, get back on track and start dating with more enjoyment. Click here to listen to the podcast. If you’re interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website here . Want to join my mailing list? Download The Dating Handbook For Men and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join here . Already know you want to work with Kimberly? Book a free consultation here .

Dating Someone New? Check Out These 10 Relationship Green Flags

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  In relationships, it’s important to know what behaviours we absolutely won’t tolerate, and that’s why many of us get clear on our red flags. But hey, if you’ve found yourself dating or in a new relationship and you’re wondering if this could be “the one,” check out these 10 green flags that you’ve found somebody special. 10 Relationship Green Flags: They support your personal growth They listen to you with patience and curiosity They respect your boundaries and have their own You are being included in their personal life, including meeting friends and family You feel safe to express yourself openly and without judgment Even if you have small disagreements, they don’t threaten your relationship They view you as an equal and include you in decision making They go out of their way to make you smile or laugh You feel comfortable being your true self around them You don’t get the feeling you’re competing for their time How many can you check off the list? If you’re not seeing these s...

Understanding Trauma And Its Impact on Relationships

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  We’ve only started to scratch the surface of understanding how trauma impacts our bodies and our intimate relationships. From small to large traumas they shape who we are and how we interact with the world. So today, I had the immense pleasure of chatting with a friend and trauma-informed coach about her story, emotional trauma, the fight-flight-fawn-freeze responses and how it shows up in our relationships. We even talked about healthy anger expression. Click here to listen to the podcast. Lea Morrison is a trauma-informed coach, healer and stress management teacher who incorporates a bottom-up approach to trauma care through nervous system regulation, vibrational healing, conscious awareness, and meditation. After climbing out of a lifetime of trauma herself, she has dedicated her career to helping others remember who they are underneath all of the stories of pain, shame and grief. Empowering each client back home to the greatness of who they really are. If you’re interested i...

Am I In A Trauma Bond?

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  Trauma bonding or traumatic bonding is when you are unable to leave a relationship even when your partner is treating you poorly. Here are some signs that you may be in a trauma bond: Your partner is critical of you, but you move towards the tiny bits of affection they give you despite this. You are stuck in a pattern of highs and lows You can’t think of positive reasons to stay in the relationship (but you do anyway) You don’t know how to find the strength to leave You don’t have a sense of self in the relationship You don’t have autonomy or agency in the relationship An individual is able to break the cycle of a trauma bond by being radically honest with themselves and setting firm boundaries. Unfortunately, this is difficult to do alone. If you have found yourself in a relationship that is based on trauma, it’s important to be persistent in your desire to end the relationship and work on yourself. Seeking a coach or therapist to help you is important to break the cycle and sup...

4 Tips For Post-Divorce Dating (For Men)

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  How to date successfully after marriage, especially if it’s been a while Divorce is known to be one of the most stressful events in someone’s life. And one can understand why. The event itself is an emotional whirlwind, not to mention financially stressful. If kids are involved, it’s just plain complicated. But the start of the divorce is not where the stress starts. On average, an individual spends two years thinking about divorce before taking action on it And when we are checking out of a relationship, it’s not usually a joyful time. The whole process can make you re-think everything you know about love and relationships. But it doesn’t mean that a healthy relationship is not in the cards for you. It is, and it can be. If you’re ready to meet someone new, here are some important areas to consider before you sign up for dating on Tinder, eHarmony or hit the streets in search of a new beau. Get support and do the inner work to heal from your divorce The healing process will look...

How The Pandemic Changed Dating Forever

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And how it’s causing you to work harder at forming meaningful relationships. Around 36% of Canadians use online dating, and it’s no surprise given the Global pandemic that has caused us to socialize less and approach dating in a new way. With rising social anxieties, many dealt with the first phase of lockdown alone and realized how awful it was to sit at home, every night without someone special to share it with. So how has dating changed in the last 18 months? Social anxieties are higher In 2021, it is now reported that social anxieties have increased as a result of COVID-19 Many of us have forgotten the important skill of having a healthy conversation. Where we once had multiple interactions and small talk without much hesitation, say in the locker room, or the coffee shop, now, it seems, it causes us to feel a rise in anxiety. For many of my clients, it has made small talk in dating apps feel more laborious and painful. Many men are reported that they don’t even know what to say wh...

Set Your Online Dating Profile Up For Success

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FREE EVENT: MASTER YOUR ONLINE DATING PROFILE The 5 Tips YOU NEED TO KNOW for a successful ONLINE dating profile What We Will Cover In The FREE Class... The 5 Proven Tips You NEED TO KNOW To Have A Successful Online Dating Profile -  I've Never Shared These 5 Steps Outside Of My Private Client Sessions Until Now Avoid These 4 Common Profile Pitfalls That Are Damaging Your Chances of Quality Matches -  Do not make these amateur mistakes in your online profile that get you overlooked. Master My 3-Part Formula For Effective Conversation Starters (Examples Inside!) -  Feel confident starting conversations and knowing what to say. No need to sweat the intro anymore! Understand The Charactertistics of Photos That Get The Most Swipes and Matches  - Give yourself a boost with carefully selected images without having to be a supermodel. Expertly Craft Your Profile Bio Using My Proven 3-Step Formula -  So you start attracting the right types of matches and stop attracting...

Understanding Trauma And Its Impact on Relationships

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We’ve only started to scratch the surface of understanding how trauma impacts our bodies and our intimate relationships. From small to large traumas they shape who we are and how we interact with the world. So today, I had the immense pleasure of chatting with a friend and trauma-informed coach about her story, emotional trauma, the fight-flight-fawn-freeze responses, and how it shows up in our relationships. We even talked about healthy anger expression. Click here   to listen to the podcast. Lea Morrison is a trauma-informed coach, healer, and stress management teacher who incorporates a bottom-up approach to trauma care through nervous system regulation, vibrational healing, conscious awareness, and meditation. After climbing out of a lifetime of trauma herself, she has dedicated her career to helping others remember who they are underneath all of the stories of pain, shame, and grief. Empowering each client back home to the greatness of who they really are. If you’re interested...

Dating a Younger Woman

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Why are men attracted to younger women? It’s no surprise this happens when we have plenty of role models for it. Leonardo DiCaprio, Sylvester Stallone, Alec Baldwin, Larry King, among others. All dating younger women. But why is this? What are your motivations for wanting a younger woman by your side? In today’s solo episode, I share a few theories about why men are attracted to younger women and some things to be mindful of if you’re dating between generations. Click here   to listen. If you’re interested in learning more about Kimberly and working with her, please head over to her website  here . Want to join my mailing list, download a Dating Handbook and receive monthly updates, freebies and new offers? Join  here .

Dating and Relationship Coaching for Men

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I Work With Single and Committed Men Who Are Serious About Taking Their Relationship To The Next Level Basic Package -  This is my starting package for men that want support, perspective, guidance, and accountability that will set you up with positive habits and confidence around dating and your most important intimate relationship. Advanced Package -  This is my premium package for men that are serious about breaking patterns and learning to show up as their highest self in dating and relationships. I will support and guide you for 6 months to achieve your most important goals around dating and relationships. Exclusive Package (Vancouver Only) - This is my highest level, most exclusive coaching package for men that are serious about overcoming their dating challenges, roadblocks, and fears . This is exclusively for men located in Vancouver as this is in-person coaching. I will be your support network, mentor, coach, and wing woman. Serious applicants only. Click here   t...

Online Dating & Relationship Coach for Men’s

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lf you’ve landed here, there’s a good chance you’re curious about what working with a  dating and relationship coach   can do for you. The truth is, it can do a lot. There are generally two types of individuals I support. Men who are single  and wanting to get back into the dating scene, but are unsure where to start, and how to make the experience feel good. This is you if you’re new to dating, dating after divorce or feeling things like frustration, anxiety, isolation, loneliness, or confusion about what you really want and how to get started. You’re ready to break your patterns in dating and love and find the person that’s right for you. And  men who are already committed to someone special  but don’t feel that deep connection. You’re feeling stressed because you know your needs are not being met, yet you don’t know how to communicate them or to avoid nasty conflict that seems to be weighing you down. If either of these common scenarios sounds like you, you’v...